Hola, soy la Psic. Imelda Béjar y le estoy atendiendo:
Sorry, my english is not well. But I will try to answer you. You are in the latin version of JustAnswer.
I don´t know if your husband have this problem bucause his mother abandoned him when he was child. Could it be posible, probably he is always traying to find satisfaction because he had many unsatisfied needs when we was child and that produced an emptiness in his person, but I need more information for me to say that.
I think your husband probably have an impulses control disorder and he needs to be in psichological treatment and if it is necesary in a psichiatric treatment too.
If he doesn´t go to recive the right atention, you and the other persons aroud him will suffer. Certainly he probably has a good reason for be in this way, but now he is an adult and he is responsable about himself and the other persons who share the life with him, like you. You can encourage your husband to go to a psichoterapy, maybe he could be more willing if you start through couple-therapy.
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Sorry for my english