I am afraid that your way of thinking is legally not correct in the event you have to produce a birth certificate for his various needs and if your name is XXXXX XXXXX them, then legally you cannot act as his mother. You would need some form of written guardianship document or legal adoption paper to have legal rights to act on behalf of the child.
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